Add Variety To Your Marriage With A Threesome

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I typically don’t publish articles for folks who are married as it’s not really my area of expertise. I’m not a married man, which is why I was hesitant to publish this article. However, what I am an expert in is dating and therefore, I feel like I’ve earned the right to share my thoughts and views on how to spice up a marriage with a dull or boring love life.

Based on what I know, married life is nice, but most often the sex life of a married couple can become boring and even quite stale, to say the least. It should come as no surprise that more and more married couples decide to break the barriers and invite a third person to join for some fun between the sheets.

Yes, I’m talking about a threesome, but don’t go jumping the gun asking your wife to have her friends over just yet.

Here are the facts first…

Most people have had a fantasy at one point or another in which they’re enjoying sex with more than one partner. It’s natural and we all have had the same thoughts. Being with two girls at once is the top or ultimate fantasy among guys, as is being satisfied by two guys is for the ladies. In the case of a married couple, the hubby would certainly enjoy seeing his wife in the loving embrace with another lady. Most wives share a similar fantasy.

If you want to spice things up with your husband or wife and maybe get involved in some swinger action stuff, then here are a few tips for you to consider.

Tips For Spicing Up A Sexually Boring Marriage With A Threesome

These are not in any order, but they’ll all help you for sure so take my advice and take action here if possible.

Talk with your spouse

In the case of most traditional marriages, talking about this kind of fantasy with your partner is almost unthinkable. But in recent times, couples have become bolder and they’re not afraid to take the steps in making this fantasy become a reality. While everything is fun and exciting in the realm of the fantasy, there are many things to consider when planning a threesome/three-way with your spouse in the realm of reality.

To be on the safe side, the first thing to do is to sit down with your spouse and have a serious discussion about the real reasons behind the “want” or “need.” If this is something you both desire, an open talk will only fortify your determination and you will both enjoy it more.

It’s true that having a threesome aka three-way with your spouse can bring you closer together, and at the same time it is true that it can create a rift between you. The purpose of the open talk is to set clear rules (which will likely later go right down the drain as unexpected thing definitely occur) and prepare yourselves for any possible surprises.

Threesomes can improve a marriage

Coming from a person who is single but has lots of married friends and having enjoyed partaking in a threesome with friends and their spouse, below are a couple of reasons why this sexual experience is a good thing for a marriage.

Unorthodox fun

Is it cheating if you invite a third person into your bed? I think not, if it is consensual and both partners enjoy it, then it is 100% green-lighted. Even if it’s taboo in the conventional way of looking at it, a threesome is pleasurable and fun. Married life has a lot of great things about it, but the sex usually falls way back on the list and other more pressing things take up the front spots of the list.

Many couples have reported having sex only once a week and even less. What better way of improving your sex life than adding some much-needed variety, like a threesome. Put aside the worries like the way your spouse looks at you kissing another person in your bedroom, or do they like the other more than you and remember that a threesome is all about experiencing new fun things with your partner that you both enjoy.

A refreshing look on life

You may have some crazy wild sexual experience once in college, but not anymore. You and your partner probably had a lot of sex at the beginning of your relationship/marriage and after a while, it became the same old boring routine.

But it does not need to be like that.

By sharing your wildest fantasies with your partner, you are opening yourself to new experiences and learning new things about one another.

When kids come into the picture, the partners slowly lose interest in one another and stop feeling the sexy vibe from before. The threesome can change all this, as this is the most abrupt change you can make to your sex life. The third person is usually the catalyst that brings the sexual energy to full force.

Don’t shy away from trying something new, as the third person does not know your routine and will most likely try things you haven’t tried before. Innovative sex positions, introducing new sex toys and other things you haven’t been brave enough to try before are what a threesome can add to your routine sex life.

Seeing a new side of your partner

It is very likely that you and your partner have learned all there is about each other in regards to sex. But in the chance of engaging in a threesome, there is a great chance of learning something about your partner that you’ve not seen before.

In the instance of inviting another woman into the marital bed and have your wife engage with her in a completely new way, you as the husband will most likely have your most erotic dream come true right in front of your eyes.

The sexual liberation that people experience during such a pursuit is not easily matched. People who truly learn to enjoy a threesome with their spouse will undoubtedly feel sexy, bold and daring and above all, find their passion all over again.

Unbelievable satisfaction

The male fantasy of enjoying two women at once, especially if one of them is the wife is an awesome way of falling in love with her all over again. When the wife invites some hot friend of hers in with nothing but the purpose of having a threesome with her husband, she clearly shows her devotion to her husband.

No ladies, don’t freak out. I’m not saying that those who don’t have threesomes don’t love their significant others. Don’t twisted things here, please.

And seeing them kissing and doing other sexy things to each other is probably going to stimulate him to have the most powerful orgasm of his life.

It is the same if the roles were reversed. Knowing that the wife likes to try sex with two guys at the same time, inviting a friend who she likes and allowing him to openly caress and kiss her is a clear way of showing her that she is a sexy female with healthy fantasies.

And to top everything off, you will have the memories that you can call upon and will keep you satisfied and smiling for a long time.

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Overcoming jealousy

Maybe the most important aspect of a threesome where spouses are involved is the occurrence of jealousy. One of the partners may think that the other is finding them lacking and that is why they insist on inviting a third in their bed. Believe me, this is not the reason at all. Threesomes are about fun, sex, and experimentation.

If both partners are on the same page, then there should not be any jealous thoughts or actions. The third person is there just to spice things up and make the sex more exciting, wild and pleasurable for all parties involved. Jealousy can be nipped in the bud only if both partners are completely honest with each other about the affair.

A very open conversation where both partners share their thoughts and fears about the threesome is the best way of overcoming them and moving forward into action. Remember that if you see your wife kissing the other guy, or you see your husband caressing the other woman, there is no need to be jealous, as the threesome is all about the unbelievable pleasures to be gained.

Conclusion

Your sex life is a very, very important aspect of your overall health and well-being. Not only is this necessary, but sex is also healthy, fun and a great way to blow off stress (pun intended). In a marriage where sex becomes the last thing on people’s minds, a good jolt is needed to remind the partners what sex is all about.

One experience that can do the trick is to have a threesome with your spouse and a third person of mutual choosing. As previously stated, it’s a great way of sparking up your sex drive, and as people today have become more promiscuous, it’s easier than ever to engage in such a romp between the sheets.

Trust me, this will make you braver, more open and everything sex-related that you’ve been afraid to try will seem very pleasurable and appealing.

Ask your partner their personal opinion about a threesome, talk about it openly and share your thoughts. If you are on the same wavelength, then talk about who you can invite to spice up your sex life and have the time of your life. The good news is that you can find someone anonymous that neither of you personally know by using any of the dating apps out there. The sky is the limit really.

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